Joyanna Adams

Nobody's Opinion

Family is Everything

Nobody Knows

This last year, has been a very personal one for me. I’ve been thinking alot about my life, how I ended up here, and what to do with the rest of my life. As you know, on Christmas I posted a picture of my son and I. I was missing him terribly. And my brother. I don’t see them anymore. They don’t want to see me, and what’s worse, they won’t tell me why.

Both my parents have passed away. Now, I have only my husband, 6 parakeets, and a dog named Jackson. It’s been lonely. Last summer, there was a young black girl riding her bike up and down the street, and we would talk. She was so cute. One day, I gave her a present..a swimmng mask. She must of went home and showed her parents, because I haven’t seen her since. So sad. I really MISS seeing and hearing playing children in the neighborhood. It’s not safe anymore. And besides, people just aren’t having babies. Babies, now, are very expensive to the masses.

The illegals..are bringing in their whole families, but that’s another blog.

Today, I went to get my haircut, and the lady and I talked about her daughters. She married her childhood sweethart, and the oldest was going off to college to study environmental science, at Rolla. Good school. But it was her 17- year- old she was worried about: Every boy she sees, she wants to marry, and they all dump her and she goes crying home on Mom’s shoulder. Mom doesn’t understand it. But I can say that these sad times for all these young girls, looking for husbands, and not finding any because of social media, and the economy, someday that girl will look back and say, “I’m so glad I had my mother there to help me through those bad times.” Trust me, she will.

Mom’s are the backbone of the family. They support, love, and care for everbody, unless of course they have been ‘feminised’ into “Oh…I should have a career!”

About that ‘career’– It’s a good thing. I had one. Girls need to use their brains. Work is always satifactory to men AND women. BUT…having children is just as important. I recently saw a video where Jorden Perterson was discussing this very subject. Women can succeed, and even get to the top, but almost ALWAYS, they drop out at 40 because they want kids. He swears by his observations.

And he’s right. They NEVER talk about hormones do they? The continuation of life…is really the human mission is it not?

The family unit is being wiped out. There are more single woman families now than married couples in the United States. Elon Musk is right. If we don’t have more children, things will be basically doomed.

If you want my Nobody Opinion, it’s due to the ‘communist’ takeover that we are living in right now. It’s written in their plans that you MUST get rid of the family unit.

But, that too is another blog.

What I wanted my son to know is that our ancestors help start this country. He should be proud.

When I was in my early 50’s, I went through a moment of despair. It was then that my mother told me we were related to the Adams, and maybe to read up on them. (Mothers, they save you everytime.)

So, I started reading…and I found out, that…THEY had written MY VERY OWN THOUGHTS that I have now in their diaries. How in the WORLD could someone living so long ago, have the same thoughts as me? They even had the nasty habit of collecting too many books. They loved trees. Sunsets…it was like walking through my own mind. And yes, they had depressions too.

John Adams, Sam Adams, JQA, Henry Adams, I had the very best of them and also the worst of them, floating around in my brain for years. And I didn’t even know it.

To tell you the truth, it was a relief to know, that I wasn’t crazy. (Well, we can debate that.)

I went to Boston to find my roots. I felt at home in Quincy. Braintree I loved. I started reading everything I could about the American Revolution, and realized that my natural proclivity to get SO upset about politics had been handed down by my ancestors. Honesty was a fault to them, and can be even now.

I discovered my roots, and by doing so, discovered myself.

FAMILY

And here I sit. My son could care less about his past ancestors. The schools have done a great job of erasing all history from schools. And tonight, that breaks my heart. He will never truly ‘find’ himself if he doesn’t face his own proclivity to THINK, and think deeply. But it’s too late. He has to find that himself.

Will he? Nobody Knows. I’m not holding my breath.

What I’m trying to say is…someday, all these women having all these abortions will wake up one day at 60 or 70 and be alone, without grandchildren and realize, what a big mistake they made. I myself wanted to have more children, but that’s another blog.

If you have a happy marriage, kids, grandchildren, then consider yourself rich beyond your own imagination.

Below is one of my favorite scenes in Amistad. Anthony Hopkins did a fantastic job as JQA. But the real line that hits me hard is “

“I will call my ancestors and beg them to come.–I am the whole reason I have existed at all.”

What a great line. And all people should now, be calling them for the next few years we are certainly going to be needing them.

I still call on mine, and I’m never alone.

January 6, 2024 Posted by | Uncategorized | , , , , | Leave a comment