Men’s Visions And Reality
Nobody’s Opinion
I’ve been following Jordan Peterson’s blogs on the internet…and he said one thing that was very revealing. Men go on vision, image, when it comes to women. They are hard-wired that way. That’s why more money is spent on porn than any other venue on the internet.
Trump once made an innocent statement about (You can almost just grab their pussies) showing how amazed he was at how being famous drew so many women to him. They tried to destroy him for that.
They didn’t succeed did they?
Women KNOW this, but not really. I found out when I was about 19, becauuse MEN do not talk about their obession with those visions. They KNOW women would just leave.
It was my first and really major depression in my life. I couldn’t get out of bed. I had about enough energy to brush my teeth. But I had a job…as a drummer in a trio. We played at a nearby honkertonk five nights a week. Every night there would be about 100 people in the bar. Back then, you played whatever was popular on the radio. My dad had to drive me to work. That’s how bad I was. Still, all I had to do was play the drums, and go home. My dad would pick me up, even though it was quite a drive and he had to get up the next day. I got off at 2pm in the morning.
As I sat on my drums, in a state-like coma, I could hear the two guys talking. The guitar player and the bass player. I’m sure they had NO idea that I could hear them. And whenever they stopped singing, they would say, “Wow, look at the boobs on THAT one!” This went on throughout the night. Finally, I noticed something strange. Since my mind was already at a blank stage, I was amazed to find out that everytime I saw a woman’s big boobs, I got horney. Not for women, but for sex with men. That’s when I realized that men are already hard wired to be attracted to the most beautiful women, the best boobs, the best looking, they can’t help themselves. BUT…realizing the porn industry, I wondered just how many men’s appetite was supercharged with the propaganda of porn. My god, I can’t imagine thinking about sex so much…woman are not that way. They are nesters. DNA pushed to want children, one partner, like nature, and so, they try to look the best they can to entice the men. BUT…the men now, can have two, three, four women since the great reset of the sixities and the great porn extravaganza that has come with the internet.
Just the other day, I listened to a young man who was having sex with three woman at once, and seemed okay with that. One of the women he was dating was having sex with all of them too.
So, what does that leave us? Do you want to talk about repopulation? May not happen. Why should a man stick with one woman, when he can five or six? Why? Vivek said something great during his recent debates…men should also be held responsible for all the abortions. Children are expensive. This “It’s her choice” BS is putting all the load on the woman to raise the kids. Men get off..in more ways than one. I could talk about this, abortions are making a lot of people a lot money—but here’s another thing:
Trump has also commented on why so many people are fat. What’s going on here? I can tell you now when I see a fat person my heart goes out them. I’m overweight…not by much…but for the last two years I’ve tried to lose weight and couldn’t. Read Maye Musk’s book. Sometimes men can be so demanding you just get low self esteem. Cortisol levels are going out the roof. And why? No sleep. Husband is taking his work problems home. You can’t talk much.
Hormones in our food…(Just walk your local grocery store.) Our thyroids are being destroyed. There is market to fatten the cows, the chickens AND the humans. It’s called, “MONEY”.
Not many people talk about it. Trump had the guts too. God bless that man.
Recently, I started losing weight. 10 pounds in one week. I’m not fat, but I sure could lose 20 pounds, who couldn’t? A teenager. I am not hungry at all anymore. Offer me a cookie, uh no thanks. In fact, all food is rather annoying. Did I fall in love on the cyberspear? Was it endorphins? Was I just not sleeping, over tired? And why is it that even the young are getting fat, and by the way, what does that do to everyone’s sex life? Men want that perfection. They are hard wired.
By the way, that’s me at 71`. With my friends new corvette. Taken last month.

Not good. The young women, give up. I’ve seen many a older woman die her hair blue. Gays are being promoted as the new norm. Think that’s not just another form of “Hey, you lonely because you’re fat and ugly? TRY THE NEW SEX!”
The blacks around are wearing tight clothes and you can see every roll. And they are young. WTH? So then you have the internet, with filters and now they can make movie stars look fabulous. If you saw them in person..what? And now, fat is being promoted in ads, in movies. They KNOW you are getting fat, and they don’t care. Follow the money.
And what does this lead to? More porn, less babies. And lots of lonely people.
It’s just my Nobody Opinion of course. But think about it. Somebody wins, and it’s not humanity.
Men have always desired the finest woman they can get. But mostly, when they reach a certain age, they throw them out. It takes a wise man to realize that there is such a thing as plastic surgery, and love, and two people growing old together, sharing their lives.
And there are not many of those left. When I turn to my husband and complain about not having the time to eat right, or even exercise, he always said. “We are growing old together…right? We knew this would happen.” Maybe he is just being kind. Whenever there is a sex scene on TV, he closes his eyes in respect to me. We turn the channel. It’s rather sweet. Still, I’m determined to keep taking those wonderful pills that make me sleep. After two years of trying hard, all it took was a simple pill?
After all, melotin is about gone when your my age, and babies, and teenagers have TONS of it. The stuff on the market is not as potent.
If you have someone you love. Hold onto them. And remember guys, you grow old too. If you can you can get the younger woman, you get the new car to hope she gets in it. Have as many kids as you can. But if you have a wise women, help her. We know you are hardwired. But we are people too. There is plastic surgery, pills, and lots of love. Nothing is impossible…they have pills, hormone replacement, whatever.
Still, this change in our culture will go on. I used to play gigs in the local playboy club. It was pretty cool. My brother was in the band, goodlooking, talented, and all the girls wanted him. One day, back in the dressing room, a playboy bunny came up to me MAD as hell because my brother was lying to her. He had several other sex partners on the side. I was like, “Hey, sorry, thats just my brother.” She was furious.
He once was engaged to a sexy woman, who one day found porn tapes of him and 9 other girls he had been dating. Haha. Stupid is as Stupid does. He found a girl who didn’t care. They are still married.
That’s probably going to be the new normal. Still…
Life goes on, and what is the ending?
Now they are pushing porn to the kids.
You…tell me. Humanity swimming in porn? Visions of perfection? Abortions?
We may not even make to the moon.

Thanks so much…for both comments. I’m in heaven, almost nobody ever says a word. Maybe I should do more of these personal moments instead of so much politics. THANKS you…and yes, I told my girlfriend to comment and tell everyone that’s her car….LOL…she just brought the lastest Mercedes from Germany. I like to kid her about her “messaging” seats.
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I’ve been been single the majority of my life so I’m not and expert about relationships.
I never thought porn was realistic and couldn’t see how people were so enthralled by it.
Regarding women who are morbidly obese, I can’t imagine a romantic relationship with them. It just doesn’t seem logistically possible. A lot of guys I’ve known say that their women provide warmth in the winter and shade in the summer.
I’ve traveled the USA and 40 countries, looks and age weren’t decisive factors for my preferences, I leaned towards personality, energy, intelligence, and hygiene. Although, redheads with freckles were almost always given carte blanche. I’ve been mesmerized by them since I was a few years old.
I’m older than you and you look great, you’re one of those women who are beautiful from the cradle to the grave.
I envy you and others who have been in the same relationship for decades.
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I haven’t commented for a while, but that was beautiful, Joy. Yes, men at all ages are hard-wired to be attracted to good looking women; But God was cruel; He should have turned the sexual urge off when men turned 70 because we can’t do anything about but he didn’t. Just observe Joe Biden sniffing the hair of young girls or the (unknown) “elite” going to the Epstein pedo island. It’s sick but maybe the old guys can’t help it. I’m not excusing Biden and the old farts, but I can understand it. (My wife and I have been married for over 50 years without infidelity)
P.S. I love your ‘vette!
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